Integrity Pledge
Commitments present themselves in delineations of black and white. You either
honor your commitments or you don't. Success is the result of making and keeping
commitments to yourself and others, while all failed or unfinished goals,
projects and relationships are the direct result of broken commitments. It's
that simple, that profound, and that important.
A commitment made, must become a commitment honored as each one counts in more
ways than you can possibly imagine. Your ability to honor your commitments
directly impacts your credibility, reputation, trustworthiness, earning ability,
and overall peace of mind. Character defines an individual and honoring
commitments helps to define character.
Every day, you make promises and commitments to customers, family members and
associates. Some are explicit, others implied, but each one ultimately results
in success or failure. Nothing builds confidence and loyalty more reliably than
a history of well-kept promises. By the same token, nothing will undermine your
reputation faster than a string of broken commitments.
If you look at successful people in any field, you'll find that they're not
necessarily the brightest, best looking, fastest or the strongest of the bunch.
What you will find is that they are the ones with the deepest reservoir of
commitment. They understand that all great accomplishment is preceded by great
commitment. How great is the power of your commitment?
Disposable is a good word to describe many of today's products. From razors to
diapers, from milk cartons to toner cartridges, it seems that disposability is
being built into the very fabric of society. Have commitments and promises
fallen into the same trap? Is it really no big deal to make a commitment and
then discard it, to make a promise and then simply walk away from it?
Commitment is a virtue, one that requires fulfillment, and one that punishes
unfaithfulness. For many, it's going to take a dramatic shift to embrace the
importance of commitments and internalize the meaning of permanence.
A man, without his word, is fundamentally worthless. It's like having a stain on
your reputation that no amount of bleach could ever remove. If your word is not
supported by action, if you take a cavalier attitude towards your obligations,
the party's over. You may as well stick a fork in your reputation because no one
will be interested working with you.
Your word is a form of capital. It's money in the bank for someone who is
counting on it. That being said, you should only invest your capital where and
when it counts most or it will lose its value. And because your word is like
currency, you must give it only when the occasion is important enough to call
for it.
The person you are promising something to must be able to recognize that your
commitment or promise has real value and that it's not counterfeit. You
certainly don't give money out to every Tony, Dick and Harry and you should
treat your word with the same level of respect. Remember, what you don't
protect, you don't get to keep. A reputation is a terrible thing to waste.
You best learn not to say you will deliver on something you know you can't,
whether it's promising to pay someone back, keeping a secret secret, or saying
you'll do a favor you won't follow through on. Consider this thought, what's the
point of making a commitment or promise if you have no intention of honoring it?
This question applies to your relationship with others just as much to yourself.
The greatest and most unfortunate betrayal is when we betray ourselves. Being
able to adhere to our commitments begins with self-respect. When we say one
thing and do another, when we start projects but don't finish them, when we go
on a diet but soon quit, the only thing we are successful at is sabotaging our
reputation with ourselves.
When we dishonor our own commitments, when we lie to ourselves, how on earth can
we be expected to honor the commitments we make to others. There is no backdoor
to a self-made promise. There is no contractual loophole. Either you maintain
the contract or you are in breach.
By dishonoring your own commitments and promises you undermine and poison
whatever trust and faith you had in your own abilities. A strong, healthy
psychological immune system is essential for success and there's no better way
to ensure that than by making each commitment count.
What kind of person do you want to be known as, someone who has character and a
stellar reputation? or someone who's unreliable, untrustworthy, who's a quitter?
Do you want to able to hold your head up high with dignity and self-respect? If
so, adopt this philosophy:
"If you make a commitment, honor it.
If you make a promise, keep it.
If you set a goal, achieve it."
Commitment is an act of pledging or engaging oneself to do or to perform. Once
there is an authentic commitment rather than a passing interest, you will find a
way to make great things happen. To translate commitment into action and to
experience the power of commitment, consider these questions:
Are you interested in getting shape or passionately committed?
Are you interested in simplifying your life or passionately committed?
Are you interested in spending more time with your kids or passionately
committed?
Are you interested in writing a book or passionately committed?
Are you interested in spiritual growth or passionately committed?
Are you interested in improving your marriage or passionately committed?
Are you interested in paying off your debts or passionately committed?
Are you interested in starting your own business or passionately committed?
Fantastic things can be accomplished once you move beyond merely being
interested to a state of passionate commitment. Until committed, goals are
irrelevant, dreams useless, and hopes no more than a pipe dream.
Commitment inspires you to perform to the best of their abilities. Commitment
protects and strengthens your credibility and reputation with yourself and
others. Commitment provides you with passionate energy and unstoppable momentum.
Commitment fills you with a sense of pride that's priceless.
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