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Spirit first, technique second" (Gichin Funakoshi)
Special Happy Birthday Wishes to the following TKC instructors ...
Allison Mosa 11/26
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What others have said ...
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Dear Mr. Fariborz:
Please allow me to share with you the impact that karate, specifically, the TKC
experience, has made on my son's and on our family's lives. As you may know, at
eighteen months, my son was diagnosed with being in the Autism spectrum. At that
time, twelve years ago, I was told by various medical professionals that my son
was never going to live independently, never have meaningful relationships,
never go to college, never get married. As you can imagine, we were shocked and
devastated. In the middle of endless tears and sleepless nights, I read
everything about Autism I could get my hands into. The more I discovered through
observing my son's behaviors and reading about it, the worst I felt.
Fortunately, I am not the type to accept the unacceptable. Without even thinking
about what we had in front of us, my son and I embarked in "the experience of
our lives". I researched and found out about innumerous therapies, some of them
with no empirical evidence that it actually worked. I also found a couple of
God-sent therapists willing to try whatever I wanted. We tried everything, from
sensory integration, behavioral modification, floor plan, pivotal response,
speech and language, occupational therapy, art, megadoses of Vit B, you name it.
We "played" 24-7. I say 24-7, because I played special music for him while he
was sleeping. Today he is 14 years old and completely hooked on classical music,
specially Mozart and Gregorian chants, and so am I. Throughout these past twelve
years, he has improved exponentially and has gradually "graduated" from various
therapies.
After six years of Occupation Therapy (OT) and much improvement, and in my quest
to give him a "normal life", I decided to look for a lifelong sport that would
fulfill his needs for sensory integration including proprioceptive input. We
tried and realized that team sports was not the way to go. We would find him in
the outfield inspecting tinny bugs, appreciating perfectly formed glass leaves,
looking to see animal shapes in the clouds, or counting stars in the skies
above. After some research, I decided on karate. I had always admired the art
and my older son had attended another academy. A mother of another special child
told me about TKC. I brought my son in for a first session and was impressed. I
found the place so conducive to my desire to give my son a loving and nurturing
environment. I was amazed when I saw the instructors actually hugging the kids.
Young and adults were so friendly with teach other, being so attentive,
listening, smiling, hugging and kissing as if they were long term friends. Now I
know that many of them are long time friends, because once we came we also
stayed and we feel that we are among friends.
Appeasing my fears, my son was not treated any differently than they treated
typical kids. I was glad that they had not noticed that he had special needs. At
least I don't think they did. But if they noticed anything peculiar, they
respected his individuality and our privacy. He has been allowed to work at his
own pace. My son has worked extremely hard over the years and is now reaping the
benefits of this work. He is in a magnet school, still needs help with academics
but he is succeeding. Of course, I know that his willingness and all therapies
together are responsible for his progress as a whole. However, I am completely
convinced that
In karate he learned to focus and pay attention
In karate he learned to trust people around him
In karate he learned the difference between a friend and a stranger
In karate he learned consistency
In karate he learned discipline
In karate he is learning to want to succeed and move forward
At TKC he feels save and loved.
I feel that he is safe and loved at TKC.
Now, mom needs help with her kicks and he is showing her how. He tells me "but
mom, it has been such along time since I did these, I don't think I remember
how". Can you hear his pride in his voice?
Mr. Fariborz, your creation has made a huge impact in our lives, I hope you know
that. God bless you and your family.
With all my love,
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Dear Mr. Fariborz,
On Saturday, September 27, 2008, my husband and I witness a powerful and
unforgettable experience, which I would like to share with you. When we stood
next to you at the ceremony, I had tears of joy and happiness. My heart was
pounding, my legs and feet were tingling and shivering as I watched my three
kids walk down the candle-lit path. Although they each walked down that path
individually for there 1st and 2nd degrees, this time, receiving their 3rd
degree was different because they were able to share the experience together. I
saw the love and support they shared, especially when they were able to tie each
others belt at the end. I now know that this is a bond that they will share for
the rest of their lives. I am so thankful to be able to be a part of this event
because it has really opened my eyes and shown me that my kids have grown up to
be such well-rounded and respectful kids.
I remember the first day, Norman and I took the three kids to your studio. You
said, "They are good, but Jimmie is better because of his flexibility." Back
then, Jason was 14, Jennifer was 12 and Jimmie was 9. We started them with a
foundation but you took them and gave them guidance. You shared your knowledge
and gave them strength and courage. Today, Jason is 25, Jennifer is 22, and
Jimmie is 19.
During the dinner, many in the studio came up to my husband and me and gave us
many praises and great compliments. They all said, "What wonderful kids you have
and how proud you must be as parents. They are such fine kids on and off the
mat." Although we took all of the credit, we know that we knew that part of it
had to do with you and your teachings. You continued to push them and challenge
them to set and achieve their goals and to never give up. You gave them courage
to face the outside world and played a huge part in molding them into who they
are today. We are so pleased that our kids have become such caring, responsible,
trust worthy, and respectful people, thanks to your guidance. We are forever
grateful to you, your past and present instructors and your fine studio.
Lastly, we, as parents are proud and thankful to you. You have acknowledged
Jason with such high regards and respects. It was truly an honor to witness this
during the ceremony. It is difficult for us to express our thoughts and emotions
in words. I know Jason will cherish this honor forever.
We are so fortunate to have you, your lovely Nina, and the children in our
lives. We hope you will continue on with your teachings and we wish you nothing
but the best in the years to come.
With Love,
Sally and Norman
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Dear Mr. Fariborz
I know I have told you "thank you" for so many things. This time I just feel
like thank you isn’t enough…although I am not sure what it is. You and your
studio have infiltrated our lives and turned our world upside down!! Positively
of course. When Matthew walked into the studio 2 ½ years ago he was a shy, quiet
and anxious boy. He has now just received his black belt and is strong,
outgoing, self confident, and an incredible young man. In her letter, Ms.
Allison reminded Matthew of when (in the beginning) he sat in my car and refused
to come into the studio, crying and screaming. After many attempts of trying to
encourage him I enlisted Dru’s help. Matthew knew her from school. She was
finally able to cajole him into the studio, and onto the mat. There were several
moments of those moments in the beginning. They have now turned into moments
where Matthew can’t get enough of the studio. As he tells his friends "it’s my
second home." Don’t get me wrong we still have moments of crying or
meltdowns…but not about karate. And when he does have those moments he is able
to turn to inner strength he has gained, and work through it. That is truly a
gift you and all of your instructors have given to our family. I look forward to
our family’s continued journey at TKC.
With much love & gratitude,
Norine
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Dear Mr. Fariborz,
The memories are numerous – too many to list here. At the risk of sounding like a goodbye (which I assure you is not my intent) I wanted to take this opportunity to thank you for the opportunities and experiences you have provided. Through my training at TKC I have been able to re-awaken talent I forgot I possessed as well as learning new skills that one transferable to many other parts of my life. You provided me access to the instructor training program, which was usually the highlight of my karate week and you were and are respectful of my intrusive work and commuting schedule, which often created a challenge to be at TKC during normal class and teaching hours. Most of all, thank you for the open-door/open-mat policy that you articulated to me the morning I came in to tell you of my plans. I seem to be finding that the straight path I think I am on tends to circle back in circles that build on each other. So, no matter what I do with my time and my life, I can look forward to the familiarity of TKC
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Dear Mr.Fariborz,
This past weekend, I had the privilege of witnessing my son, Jake, become a
Black Belt. In this letter, I hope to convey the gratitude I feel toward you for
all you have done o help Jake achieve this monumental goal and for the way you
helped him achieve it.
Jake is the youngest of our three children. Even when I had only two children,
though, I would dream about a third child, a boy, so when Jake was born, I felt
as though I had already known him for many years, almost as though I had been
waiting for him. He was not as easy as my older two children. He wanted to be
with me every minute. He couldn't fall asleep without playing with my hair and
watching my face. He felt insecure in new situations, and rambunctious boys made
him cling to me even more. Each time we signed him up for a sport, he wanted to
quit because the coach spoke rudely or the boys were mean. I worried about him,
but I also realized he was unusually smart and that he'd probably find his own
way to succeed. Eventually, I figured out that Jake did best when I let him
lead. That was definitely different for me!
When Jake told us that he wanted to learn karate, we were excited that he was
showing interest in a sport, but that was about as much as we thought about it.
We knew about you from Nikki Watkinson, who is our oldest son's godmother, so we
signed Jake up at TKC. In the beginning, Jake was older than a lot of the kids
in his karate class, and this made him uncomfortable. You noticed this right
away, though, and moved him to the teen class. Pretty soon, Jake asked us not to
come into the karate studio during his class. He just wanted to be dropped off
and picked up. That was definitely different for Jake!
In the beginning, we thought TKC would be a great place for Jake to challenge
himself physically. I didn't know then how many opportunities Jake would find to
grow at TKC. What a gift you have created! Over the fast four years, Jake's
experiences at TKC have been truly transformative. When he started taking SWAT,
Jake began to understand the depth of your words during those lessons influenced
him profoundly. Jake has always been a thinker, but you have made him think more
deeply. Jake has always been a hard worker, but you made him understand the
importance of experiencing the journey, not just reaching the goal. I will
always remember when you talked about making progress instead of attaining
perfection. Jake had spent weeks worried about his red belt test, and your words
put everything into perspective…immediately.
On Saturday, when you bestowed your own black belt on Jake, I was deeply moved.
I felt that I was watching a moment that was always meant to be, if that makes
sense. It was just the most natural thing in the world, even though it was
always the most special thing that's ever happened to Jake. Just as Jake was
always part of my destiny, I think that you were always part of his. I'm
grateful that he met you so early in his life and that he has a gift of learning
from you and getting to know you these past four years. I know his life will
always be better because you have been part of it.
With heartfelt gratitude,
Julie K
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Julie
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Dear Mr. Fariborz:
I am writing you to thank you. I have just returned a couple of hours ago form
Taipei, Taiwan where I tested for some of the lessons that I have learned at
your school.
You once said that “…you do not test when you are ready, but when is time to
test.” As you may know Taiwan was hit with a 7.3 earthquake the night of Monday.
We, two co-workers and myself, arrived at Taipei on Saturday for a 2 week
business trip visiting several suppliers. Monday night at 2:00 AM I was awakened
by the earthquake. On the 14 floor of the hotel, without lights and holding on
the doorframe of my room. I sincerely was waiting for the building to collapse.
To my surprise I felt no fear nor panic while the entire floor was shaking
violently, this lack of fear is a lesson about myself that I will need to
understand.
When the movement stopped, my first reaction was to run downstairs and outside,
but as I was leaving my room there were two ladies across the hall that were
clearly dazed, scared and without a clue on what to do. I knew that at any
moment my knees would start shaking (I am far from being a brave man) and if I
stopped I would probably not be able to help myself, let alone them.
Why I did it is another lesson that I would have to explore, but I helped them
to find the flashlights under the night bed, told them to put shoes on, get
their passport and walk to the stairs. When they were ready to leave, I realized
that I did not have any of the things that I had advised them to take, so I
returned to my room and collected the Items.
I knocked on my friend’s door and when they did not answer I figured they would
already be gone, and fortunately that was the case. Upon exiting the hotel, I
joined a group of people across the street. Among them were my partners, as we
talked about our reactions, I realized that the two ladies actually helped me to
maintain my thoughts calm and clear.
One lesson that I did learn is that the best way for me to beat fear in a crisis
is not to turn my back on someone if I can help them, somehow I will be helping
myself. As we stood under the rain I began to use your teaching, the few that I
was able to learn.
One was truth to myself, because my two partners were not considering leaving
Taipei until the business trip was over or until their bosses told them to
leave. In my list of priorities leaving Taipei as soon as possible was number
#1, without a doubt. I believe that when you teach me that I am not what I do,
(I am not an engineer, this is what I do), you prepared me for this test, and I
was ready. The reasons for me to stay when such high risks are in place were
based on the things that I do, what the outside world expected me to de, not
related to things that I would be doing if I had six months to live.
Around me other people were trying to get answers to the question: “Should I
leave or stay to finish my business deals?”
They were looking for answers outside themselves, not exercising their “RIGHT TO
CHOOSE”, I was calm and happy that I did not have to struggle with my decision.
My partners were trying to find in the dark for reasons to leave but not sure to
take the decision by themselves. One of them went back inside for a quick call
to the US to ask what to do.
One hour later he was still talking on the phone with his boss, because his boss
was telling him what to do, his boss was giving him over the phone a list of
suppliers t o call to find out if they would be able to ship things on the due
to the earthquake, and this was going on in the middle of the aftershocks.
My other partner also called his boss to get a feeling if it was OK to leave.
The earthquake happened at about 2:00 AM, and by 7:15 AM I was on an airplane
flying out of Taipei, my two partners still struggling with their thoughts were
seated in the row behind me. During this ordeal, I have witnessed compassion,
fear, the power of “First things first”, and so many thing that I will not be
able to understand and learn from them until some time, probably a long time.
One thing I am sure, the things that I did and the decisions I took were
definitely based on your teachings, do not ask me which ones, but I trusted my
instinct and you were fundamental in helping me develop them.
Nevertheless, the feeling of relief that I felt upon exiting that hotel did not
last long, it lasted until I learned of the number dead and injured, I prayed
for them.
On a final note, the epicenter of the earthquake was in a city called Nantou; we
had planned to fly to Nantou at 8:00 AM.
It will take years to digest all of the lessons presented to me Monday night.
For now, I am thankful for the gift of life and what I have done with it.
Respectfully
Adrian
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Adrian
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LAW OFFICES OF
MARK E. PANUNZIO, P.A.
ATTORNEY AT LAW
May 6th, 2008
Dear Master Fariborz:
It is with great anticipation that I await your arrival at our black belt
graduation ceremonies in October. I still recall your knife fighting class you
gave when you were in town last. Over the years when Mater Sensei speaks of you
and his years of study, his passion motivates me not only through the respect in
his voice but the emotion in his eyes. I just received my black belt candidacy
rank last week and am due to earn my black belt in your presence in October
(unless Sensei comes to his senses J).
Looking back on previous readings I had done on your career, three words were
highlighted; the teacher, the blend, and the team. I hold these three concepts
close in my training and in fact some of my favorite times in class are when I
get to conduct the exercises or provide some other type of assistance to fellow
junior students. I too find great satisfaction in teaching others not only
Martial Arts but in all aspects of a positive outlook on life.
Sincerely,
Mark E. Panunzio
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Mark E. Panunzio
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Good day Mr. Fariborz.
My name is Ron. My daughter Lauren and I, are new students at your very
impressive Martial Arts studio. I just wanted to tell you, that even though we
are new, that you, Mr. Faramarz and the rest of your staff, have made us feel as
if we were long time veterans of the school. We have been treated with the same
kindness and respect as everyone else. We have never felt like "outsiders" and
have been seamlessly accepted into your extended family. For this, we are truly
humbled. We always feel very comfortable and welcomed in the studio.
Our journey here, began like this...For the first five years of Lauren's life,
she was my and my wife's only child. She was our little princesses, whom we
doted upon endlessly. She had our full attention, 24/7. Subsequently however, my
wife Jodi and I had two more daughters. They are now ages two and one years old.
The new babies, obviously require much of our attention now, and Lauren has felt
sort of left out. I'm not a psychologist by any means, but I suppose that Lauren
started to act out, somewhat negatively, to garner more attention, any
attention, that she was so accustomed to before. This started to become
problematic, so we sought out advice. We were told to keep her busy with fun
activities like sports and such. We enrolled her in dance and gymnastics
glasses, but she just didn't take to those activities very enthusiastically. It
was a chore to get her to go, so we stopped. I believe she felt like we were
just passing her off to someone else so that we could be with her sisters more.
One day, she came home from school and told us that some of her friends and
classmates were taking Karate, and that girls could participate in to too. So we
talked to the kids parents, our friends Jennifer and Marni. They couldn't stop
praising TKC and said it was an awesome place, and that it really helped their
children with issues that they had also. They suggested that we should
definitely give it a try........ We did.
At first I was apprehensive and Lauren was nervous. But as soon as she put on
her uniform and saw Alec, Cole and Jake in theirs, she was hooked. She was so
hooked that, one time at work I was given some really good company Dodger
tickets. Lauren loves going to the Dodgers games, but the game fell on a Tuesday
night. Well of course, Tuesday is Karate day, and guess what? She didn't want to
go to the game because she didn't want to miss her karate class! It was then
that we knew that this was the place for her. She loves it, and according to Mr.
Ash and Miss Sally, Lauren is doing really well, and has already earned her
third Black Tip! (my wife tears up with pride whenever Lauren earns a Tip) Now
Lauren wants to be like Miss Lilly someday, in the blue SWAT uniform, and help
to teach the new kids. This experience has been more that we could have hoped
for.
The only drawback was that Lauren was still doing this activity alone, and she
wanted to do something with Mom or Dad like before her sisters arrived on the
scene. This is where my journey into the Martial Arts begins... I figured that
this was something that her and I could do together, two White Belts, working to
achieve our first goal of reaching the rank of Orange Belt together. But how
could I participate? I'm too old (47), too fat (245 lbs.) and out of shape I
thought. My wife asserted that aside from being there with Lauren, that this was
something that I needed to do for my health and wellbeing, if I wanted to be
around a long time to see our daughters grow up.
So I started working out, walking, bike riding and light weight lifting on my
own. Jodi helped me with my diet and, lo and behold, I lost 20 pounds and felt
pretty good. I started the process of quitting smoking and yet I still didn't
feel ready to take Karate. That's when Marni heard of my dilemma and told me
"Why loose more weight to take Karate when you could lose more weight while
taking Karate? Why not start now?" So I went on the TKC web sight and started
reading the wonderful testimonials of Marni and other people. I came away
inspired and convinced that I could do this.
Mr. Faramarz set me up with a uniform and a success journal, and I've been
taking classes with Mr. Amir ever since. Is it easy? No. Is it fun? Yes. Is it
worth it? Absolutely. Do we love it? Most definitely!!! Lauren and I practice
our Art and study the Creed and Salutes at home together now. And since she is
further along that me, she is in the role of instructor and I her student :)
Lauren's disposition and behavior have improved dramatically and she is even
doing better in school. I feel re-energized and see the doldrums of middle age
melting away. Of course this is all made possible because of Lauren's mom, my
wife's, constant support and encouragement. Jodi's workout is taking care of all
of us everyday, but I hope in the near future, she can join us too.
Thank you very much Sir, for offering us the place and opportunity to do
something really, really special... that is working hard on our new dreams and
goals of reaching the exalted level of Black Belts.
Sincerely and respectively,
Ron
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Ron
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Dear Mr. fariborz-
I wanted to share this story with you because it made me feel good. Today when all of the children were playing at baseball when their older siblings were playing in the actual baseball game , my Ava started to pick up trash and clean the bleachers area that looked very messy.When I asked my daughter why she would do this she replied"that I am doing an act of kindness for the earth." I got a good feeling and thought to myself how proud of her for even thinking this way. I know she learned this in her training at TKC and it was now rote thinking and something she just does rather then must do.Then , one of the dads came up and gave her a dollar.It was not the money so much (but she did have enough for a churro!) it was the acknowledgement that she made a difference where she could and that in effect she also touched that other person - and then he did an act of kindness too.Thank you for teaching my children to be good citizens as we try to do as well.
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Terri Recchia
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Dear Mr. Fariborz,
I have been taking classes with you for awhile now and I feel compelled to share some thoughts with you. We often forget to express appreciation to those that inspire us.
I really enjoy your classes. I'm not sure that I would be on this path toward my black belt without you as my instructor. You are unique. Your love for the martial arts and desire to share your knowledge is very powerful and attracts great respect. You seem to be always in motion, with full dimension and it's naturally motivating.
Perhaps, you cannot always chose your students, but luckily I can chose my instructor (since I have particularly high standards and get bored easily). I look forward to this black belt journey over the next few months and I hope that my experience has a positive impact on you as well. It would be more fun that way.
With thanks,
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Shelley
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Hi, i'm Riley, Reece and Avas Dad, David.
I thought that I would just say a little about what I, as a parent came away
with from the Black Belt test.
I believe that my kids realized that their limits are far higher than they
thought. I see that they understand that being a Black Belt is more than just a
belt and lessons and tests.
I hope they understand that Black Belt is a way of living, not just a way of
life. They understand that they will always be learning, provided they leave
themselves open to the knowledge that is available to them from their
instructors, classmates and parents.
Last, I believe profoundly that their experiences will influence all that they
do for all their lives.
Thank you for your patience and understanding.
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David A. Ticotin
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Dear Mr Azhakh
I am writing to say how much i have enjoyed and have been inspired by the articles on your web site.I am a Clinical Nurse Specialist in Aggression Management for the National Health Service in the United Kingdom.Part of this role includes teaching Control and Restraint techniques to health care professionals who work in all areas of the Hospitals.I worked in the Accident and Emergency dept for 10years,Unfortunately the levels of violence and aggression within the Hospital enviroment is ever increasing.On reading the articles it made me realise that as teachers we need to occasionally take time out to focus on the direction that we have chosen to follow in all aspects of life.As teaches we still need to recharge our batteries. I have studied Martial arts since 1983 and the philosophy assists me in all aspects of life.In particular with being a parent and having a 8year old boy who is keen on self defence,T.K.D and Judo the biggest reward in class and in life is seeing him and other kids having the understanding that it is not just about the physical techniques,but about being willing and offering assistance to others in all aspects of class and life in general ! Hopefully it will assist in them being good citizens as they grow up !
I have a couple of days annual leave,and going with the family to Scotland, it is going to be a valued time with the family even more now i have read the article on not waiting for that special occasion.The new clothes[for that special occasion] are going to be worn today,and the aftershave !The wife may think i am after a younger model !!
I am in the process of revising the pressure point techniques that i teach to health care professionals in disengaging from an attacker in which there are 3 very basic techniques,would it be possible for me to e-mail you again, regarding any advice that you may be able/ wiling to give.
Many Thanks for taking the time to read the first international e-mail i have sent.
Regards
[P.S. The e-mail name was my sons idea and was in memory of our family pet a German Shepard called Major ]
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Barry Smith
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Dear Master Fariborz:
I want to thank you again for a fantastic experience. I know I am not the most demonstrative of your students, nor do I spend as much time at the studio as some students. However, this is in no way reflective of my very strong and positive feelings for you and your program. You have made a profound and life altering impact on me that I can never forget, nor for which I can adequately express my feelings and gratitute in mere words. I intend on doing justice to your efforts by living the principals of Black Belt Excellence for the rest of my life and look forward to continuing my education and enlightenment with you and TKC (and, finally using my private lessons with you).
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Paul Menes
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Mr. Fariborz,
What a special day you presented to us on October 26th. We wish to thank you for such a meaningful experience. It was a terrific day!
The standards of excellence in the participants’ execution and presentation showed through very brightly. This stands as a true testimony to extraordinary teaching and instruction.
Thank you for having your studio in our community where our children, grandchildren and family have access to this highest quality of karate.
Congratulations to you Mr. Fariborz on your 20 years anniversary and best wishes to you as you go forward from this 20th anniversary of Team Karate Centers.
Sincerely,
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Marge & Jerry Cornwell
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Dear Mr. Fariborz,
I am not quite sure where to begin. The experience of testing for my black belt is one that will be with me for the rest of my life. It seems like yesterday that we were at your birthday party and you asked Vito if we would be testing this year and to my horror he said, “Definitely”. I ran home got on line and looked up everything I did not know how to do, got out all of my video tapes and got to work.
Between January and March I learned everything and more thanks to you, Miss Christine and the TKC instructors. I felt humbled to be on the mat with such a great team as the Dragons. All of the things that you had us do and write about made the whole experience that much better. I feel that the past nine months will go down in my memory as one of the most incredible experiences of my life. The culmination being when you tied that Black Belt around my waist. You have such an incredible way of doing things! Saturday was such a wonderful day. I can only put it next to my wedding day and the days my daughters were born. Even now when I think back on the Friday evening and the graduation ceremony I start to cry.
I look to you as a teacher, leader and mentor and on a personal level I consider you a dear member of my family. You have changed my life in ways you will never even know. Since I tested this year I have formed friendships that will last for the rest of my life. My dearest friends are at TKC. I consider them, and you, my family and I would do anything for any of you.
I just wanted to let you know how much my family appreciates you and all that you do. We hope to some day give back to you as much as you have given to us. Thank you for being a great role model for our girls too. Miranda looks up to you so much and cannot wait to get her Black Belt.
Once again THANK YOU for everything!!! We love you!
Love,
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Michelle Pace
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Dear Mr. Fariborz:
I wanted to let you know how much I enjoyed the spectacular and anniversary
event. Many words come to mind to describe my experience: exciting,
inspiring, warm, loving, motivating, impressive, touching, moving,
invigorating, and just plain fun. It brought back such wonderful memories for
me of what remains one of my most precious and important days in my life: the
day I became a Black Belt. The event was so well coordinated and so
professionally done. You all did such an excellent job making the event great
for everyone. It all ran very smoothly. I enjoyed seeing some people I hadn't
seen for a while. It was also very moving to see some other students become
Black Belts whom I've known since I started at TKC. Thank you very much for
having the event and making such a great experience possible. I also wanted
to thank you for the gift. I look forward to reading your book. All my best,
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Dear Mr. Fariborz,
I just wanted to send a quick message to tell you how much I enjoyed the Black Belt Spectacular this past Saturday. My sister, Elaine, received her black belt and I'm so glad that I was able to attend. She was amazing. It was obvious that she has worked extremely hard for her black belt, but what was also obvious to me was that you have had a profound effect on her life.
As I looked around the room, is was apparent that Elaine was not the only one. How amazing to see 20 years worth of people whose lives have been positively impacted by you. During dinner that night, I overheard you ask Michelle what her favorite part of the day was. So I started to review all that I saw to come up with my favorite part. Although I was blown away with Elaine and her other black belt friends, I think the part I enjoyed most was seeing 600 people giving tribute to you and how you have changed their lives.
The eight hour day flew by because the event was so well choreographed and the candidates were so well prepared. I can't wait to come back in the next few years and watch it all over again when Paul prepares to receive his black belt. Again, thank you for all of your efforts and congratulation on 20 impressive years of karate excellence.
Sincerely,
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Sally Underwood
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Since I have not yet signed up as a student, I feel what I have to say must be taken with a grain of salt,as they say. I have observed a tremendous shift from what I knew before to a more customer / student centric environment. This is both pleasing and refreshing, and I think it should go a long way to continued success at TKC. Well done.
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Clifford Hall
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All in all this organization reflects very positively; students are treated with lot of respect; the organization seems to be run with superior professionalism and sets an excellent example of how to interact with its students regardless of age group.
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Madeleine D. Florey
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For me it has been and will continue to be a great experience, the challenges, cirriculum,and especially the staff from the front office to the instructors really makes TKC a special place to learn the art of HAPKIDO..
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Randy Singer
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I truly enjoy my personal experience at TKC and love the experience for my son. The seriousness of the studio is evident, yet it's still a place where both children and adults can enjoy themselves. It's something that both Frankie and I look forward to. I'm glad I finally took my neighbor's advice and came, and I have referred several satisfied families. Keep up the good work!
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Karen Horne
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Dear Mr. Fariborz,
First of all, let me start off by saying that I am memorized by your website. It is a history of so many people's triumphs and victories. I hope this email finds you in good health and spirits. It has been exciting for me each year when I come home from college and see how much TKC has expanded (Though when I started, it was your Martial Arts Academy). I have grown throughout the years and neglected my desire to finish what I started with you eleven years ago. I regret having letting go of something that meant so much to me. I regret saying goodbye to my friends and instructors, who through the course of time became my family.
After much thought, I decided to continue my martial arts training here in Texas under Dick Strom. Maybe you have heard of him? Anyway, I just wanted to let you know that I enjoyed every day I spent at the studio and hope that this new experience will be just as enjoyable for me. Going back to the history incorporated in your website, I remember something you said to me at a banquet. It was winter and I had just successfully passed my test for blue belt. You were wearing all white and standing in front of a room of students and their families talking about life choices. I don't remember the the exact contents of your speech except for one quote that has stayed with me these past eleven years. "Today is the first day of the rest of your life". I have said that phrase to myself every time I hit a low point in my life and it has made all the difference in my success. As a senior, I am in the top five percent of my class nationally (on my way to law school hopefully), in the best physical condition of my life, and spiritually content. I don't know where I would have ended up if I had not listened to Reza Moazei and started karate. I am going to finish something I started a long time ago and I wanted to let you know that today is the first day of the rest of my life.
always,
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Amir Mortazavi
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This has been one of the most wonderful experiences of my life. The more time I spend here, the more impressed I am with what Mr. Fariborz has created and the people he has surrounded himself with. I only wish I had done something like this when I was younger.
I look forward to continuing my journey with you.
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Lisa P. Johnson
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My first thought of the morning is "Cool Karate tonight", I look forward to going to class. when I am finished class I am glad I am a part of TKC Again. Its nice to be a part of great organization like TKC.I look forward to working hard each day to one day recieve my black belt. Thank you Mr.Fariborz, Mr. Farmamarz, Mrs. Christine, Mr David , Mr Jim for all your doings.
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Robert Allan Rubino
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My dad says when he studied martial arts there was alot of yelling, nobody smiled and everything was very serious. He says TKC is more like a family. I don't know about all that. I know I always look forward to classes and always have a great time. I want to try my best and be the best.
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Devyn Flaherty
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I don't think I could find a better place to train. It's like home, plus the hours that your open make it easy to find time to work out. Plus- I'm testing for black in three weeks- you must be doing something right.
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Frank Accardo
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We spend so much time there and we have made so many friends that both, Alina and I feel that this is a really good investment for us and the girls. Thank You!
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Claudio Mattia
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Team Karate Center is the perfect place for my son. I don't anticipate ever leaving it.
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Lauren Uroff (parent of Jim Uroff)
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Mr. Fariborz,
I have stood before knowledgeable audiences in the past -- the toughest was a
gathering of my peers (performers and whip crackers at the Wild West Arts Club
convention in Las Vegas in 2001). I acquitted myself fairly well, but today I
met the second most knowledgeable crowd I've ever faced -- and it was a
profoundly satisfying experience.
Truth is that in every good workshop, I learn something new. For me, this is
the hallmark of a good lesson. But today's session teaching basic whipcracking
to a dozen practiced and top-notch karate instructors in Los Angeles opened my
eyes in a dozen new ways.
The studio is intimidating -- a large space subdivided into big workout
rooms. The rooms are floored with rubber mats which seem to focus energy as much
as they muffle the sounds of footsteps.
As I explained the anatomy of whips and the different styles of whips and
their uses, I immediately encountered a succession of questions coming from a
single perspective: Can these whips be used as weapons?
The answer, of course, is yes -- within limitations. In Texas, I learned that
for close encounters one would likely rely upon the cudgel of the handle end of
the whip as much as the cracker end. If your opponent stands within the range of
your whip, he can tangle it or grab it, effectively neutralizing its value as an
offensive weapon. When you "cock" the whip, swinging it backward in order to
throw it forward, you leave yourself unprotected long enough for your foe to
gain advantage.
The solution to these problems is to use a short whip, like a snake whip, no
longer than 3 or 4 feet. One should rely upon it to startle and disorient your
foe by cracking at his face. If you strike the eyes, you incapacitate him
immediately -- and if you do not make contact, it will still likely take the
wind out of his attack.
There are several instruments in the martial arts armory which rely upon whip
physics, including a short steel braided whip of Chinese design which is used to
grab and hold. There is a chain whip with blades on the end which can be used
effectively. Cossacks were noted for the cruelty of their whips, and South
African policemen routinely subdued protesters with shambocks, non-cracking
whiplike canes. In Russia, the knout had hooks braided into the whip's thong,
and to be beaten with this instrument resulted in bones being broken and flesh
being ripped from the body. One U.S. whipmaker told me that he had seen an
American whip from the 1860's which had fish hooks braided into the thong for
some reason.
With a short whip, one can use nunchuk techniques effectively. Some observers
said the whip handling movements I was demonstrating reminded them of 'kali'
moves.
Several of the instructors commented on how the whip immediately grounded
them, forced them to not think about what they were doing. They appreciated my
method of having them try a stroke with their weak hand before trying it again
with their dominant hand. Apparently, in their weapons training, this two-handed
technique is also used extensively.
In bullwhip workshops, I have seen that children seem to catch on fairly
quickly, perhaps because they do not intellectualize the process. They are
allowed to be awkward, and through this acceptance of the inevitability of
mistakes, they can explore and grow in their ability unselfconsciously. Having
an adult use his weaker hand short circuits the thinking mind in order to make
the student teachable. When the instructors moved the whips back to their
dominant hands, they were usually amazed at how much they had learned from this
procedure.
The students I have had the most success with, over the years, usually have
martial arts training in their background, so it was no surprise to me that this
group came into the session with a higher level of ability than normal. But in
two instances, I thought I had been set up with "ringers," people who had been
taking lessons from some accomplished whip coach somewhere. The movements were
graceful as the whips traveled at their own speeds without being muscled. The
foot stances and arm positions were precise and did not misdirect the whip or
allow the energy to dissipate before it exploded out of the cracker. It was
beautiful to watch, and the crisp cracks produced by their pure forms resounded
triumphantly off the walls of the dojo.
I was truly impressed -- how dare I presume to teach people who already know
how to do it, but just do not know that fact?
I accept this reality, and I give them information, I give them feedback --
and I give them permission to make the whip their own experience, not mine.
This group started with the right attitude. They were respectful while being
aware of the potential for self damage. They were courageous and thoughtful.
They were calm and focused. They were conscious of what they were doing. They
asked intelligent questions. They brought the wealth of their own experience and
ability to the lesson, and it paid off for them. Every person was able to crack
a whip, most of them in all of the three basic forms I demonstrated. Some of
them were better after this single lesson than many people who tell me they'd
been cracking whips for years.
This was an introduction, certainly not comprehensive. But this day, I think
I did my job right, because they are now prepared to learn from the whips
themselves. All I did was pass on my own experience and share my own ongoing
appreciation of the power and beauty which the whip creates every time I pick it
up.
I know that I was merely there to guide, not to impose my view of the
universe upon anyone. This in no way dimished my pleasure as I watched them
teach themselves, as I watched them listen to their own bodies and listen to the
whips. I was allowed to experience their discovery and through them to
rediscover my own spirit of the whip.
They were children, in the most human and most mature sense of the word. In
return, the whips liked them -- a lot. I walked out of there feeling pretty good
about meeting the second most knowledgeable audience I've ever faced. Each
person honored me with his and her attentiveness and with their willingness to
allow me to share with them what I know of whip cracking.
Thank you, each and every one of you, and especially Fariborz and Jim, for
allowing this to happen --
Respectfully,
Robert Dante
ROBERT DANTE
Bullwhip Shows - Performances
Demos - Group or Private Workshops
(Dante's illustrated book, "Bullwhip Magic,"
will be published in September) 310-281-7858
http://www.bullwhip.net
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ROBERT DANTE
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Ever since I joined this studio,
I have loved it. The people are
great, i've made great friends, and
even shared this experience with
my best friend. The staff are very
nice and insightful instructors.
Its definately a great experience.
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Dana Parlevliet
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Dear Team Karate Centers & Staff,
I want to thank you. There are two specific area's;
First, for the incredible job that you do for the development of our industry and community. By reaserching, developing, and acknowledging so much great data.
Secondly, for sharing with me. You do not have to do this, but, you do. Not for profit, not out of greed or ego. When we all started off as white belt the was no discrimination, sex, finacial, nor race or style. We where new born martial artist. We have all grown. I am so impressed and truly touched that you share your knowledge with me, a different style, a different income bracket, a different nationality. You do this unconditionally.
Well, please accept my gratidude. Please accept it on behalf of ALL OF US that you share with.
Sincerly,
Master James Matthews
Kung Fu San Soo
530-226-9494
3286 Bechelli Lane
Redding, CA 96002
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Master James Matthews
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Hello Mr. Fariborz,
I just wanted to thank you for sending us these wonderful and educational articles. I find your Karate institute a place where people, specially children, not only get physical trainings but also get training for their sole. I am so proud that my son goes to such a class where education of minds are praised as highly as physical activity. I have seen Mr. Reza pay attention to the smallest needs of the children. Educate them in every aspect that he can in the short 45 minutes that he has at a given time. He is such an admirable and amazing person. Or Mr. Saeed, his kindness, considerations and professionalism goes a long way. My blessing goes to all of you at TKC, wishing you and the rest of the Iranians at TKC Happy Norouz and a wonderful New Year.
Sincerely
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Ramak Pourvasei Jamneshan
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I would like to say that the TKC staff has been exceptional in helping me acheive my goal. I want thank Mr.Fariborz for his encouragement and words of wisdom. I also want to thank Mr. Craig for helping me with my forms and always willing to help me when I ask for it. In addition, if I did not mention you by name I want to say that all TKC intructors are always available and encouraging in every way possible.
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Corey Polakov
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Dear Mr. Fariborz,
Where do I begin? Well I'll start at the beginning. When you first started doing karate with Grayson, to be honest as you remember I was a little hesitant. Here is a young man my stepson's age telling me that he'll treat my son like my "normal," child. Never inmy life did I think that I would tell someone to treat him differently, "not the norm." He is his own individual person. It's been a real tough road to reach that place and now that I'm better able to deal with some of our hardships. I can now see that, that was a huge milestone for me.
Grayson is special not only because he's my son but because God has given him this huge challenge to deal with (for a 6 year old). Grayson has on incredible way of dealing with some of his issues, having to take 13 pills everyday, doctors visits, hospital visits, blood being drawn well that's just the short version of it.
But he has a heart of Gold and the compassion and sensitivity that older people don't hope.
Now that I watch you deal with him knowing how his body works, tears fill my eyes. I feel that God has reached down to us in one step and given Grayson his own "angel Reza" to help him through his journey.
Actually after Graysons 1st orange belt class when he got in the car he had tears in his eyes, which then of course made me tear up. It had to do with his balance.
We talked about how some things might be harder for Grayson than someone else but like I always tell him and I heard you tell him just try your best and focus.
J You have a very gentle, kind and compassionate way of knowing my son. I can't begin to tell you how much that means to me. He genuinely cares a lot and looks up to you. His karate learning will not be easy, but I think with you guidance he will achieve to his best abilities. J Thank you Mr. Reza for making karate a fun experience, you are truly an incredible young man. Team Karate is lucky to have you. You can share with them this letter because you individually have set a connection with Grayson, and Mr. Saeed, Mr. Faramarz and Ms. Kathy to name a few (oh and Mr. Jim) have been so supportive in my crazy mood, emotions and have helped me in so many ways. In closing thank you all for being so kind to us. March and April will be a tough couple of months. March 19 we visit San Diego Neurological Disease Center, and then he's admitted for a 4 night stay the following week, for further testing hoping nothing to invasive.
But we plan on making the best of it with a plan of going to Sea World after we're discharged.
Then in April 22 were off to New York to another Mitochondrial Disease Center specialist supposively the best, for 1 week. Pray for us and we'll keep in touch in between those times, our schedule just might be a little bit J off.
"Serenity does not cancel hope or adventure, work or home. It flows through the landscape of our busy lives, quiet and strong, clear and gentle refreshing all we do or dream"
Pam Brown b. 1928
Sincerely,
Jenny Namon
March 2002
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I really feel like TKC has changed my life. It has made me strong and more confident. It has made me take control of my life and take responsibility for my own actions. And I have only been attending classes for about 3 months; I can't wait to see how I change within the next few years as I work towards my black belt. I love the warmth that I feel from all the instructors and the staff. I feel like I am really learning something and with TKC's help I will learn much more and become an even better person.
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Ava Ulam
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Mr. Fariborz,
I just wanted to thank you for selecting Bryan as your first student of the month. These are the types of positive events that a child will remember for his entire life. He is so excited and proud that he has earned your approval. You and your staff (especially Reza and Saeed) have not only been
instrumental in Bryan's personal growth but have also become role models.
Angie and I are very appreciative.
Warm regards,
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Charlie Wong
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I feel your program is a wonderful experience. I don't think you need to change anything. But maybe having my female teachers (as main intructors) to influence the kids that girls can do it to. Thanks for everything. I luv you guys!
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Rebecca Goodrich
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My, and my son's, overall experience at TKC has been wonderful!!! We love going to Karate, and it feels like a second home to us. Thank you for welcoming us into your family and for making us feel like we belong. Personnally and for my son's sake, I have really enjoyed the balance TKC has decided to adopt between the "martial" side and the "art" side of martial arts. Thank you for everything!
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Ken Berke
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My name is Devyn Tamar Flaherty and I am a 3rd grade student at Willow Elementary in Agoura Hills. We were given an assignment to write about our favorite sport. I was chosen by my class as the best and was honored with an award called "Author of the Month" This is what I wrote:
"My favorite sport is Karate. I like it because it makes you stronger and braver in your heart and mind. Karate also teaches you more about yourself and how good you can be, not only in the sport but in life.
You will love this sport because it is not just about Karate, it is about you. This sport pushes you to try harder in everything you do. In Karate you will build self confidence and self control. If everyone took Karate and followed the instructor's teachings, there would be no fighting. Instead there would be respect for yourself and others through discipline. But, I don't do Karate because of all that. I do Karate because it is FUN!!"
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Devyn Tamar Flaherty
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Dear Sir,
I hope you don’t mind but I want to share
my story with you. In 1989 after a horseback riding accident fluid began to
build up on my brain, left undiagnosed for three years until found I went to
surgery which would forever alter the course of my life and the life of my
family. I had what was to be the first of seven surgeries, three times I was
found in coma by my then eight-year-old son. In 1993 I was sent to Spaulding
hospital for re-hab. I had lost total control of all my muscles and was taking
28 to 40 pills a day some for seizure, some for pain. The doctor there told me
to expect six months of hard work. He said “get out of bed and exercise or sit
here and pity yourself”. Never one for pity I exercised all day and most of the
night. The nurses were always on the look out for what I was up to.
Two weeks to the day I went home. In the fall of 1995 I was searching for a
sport for my son. We visited many karate centers and fund personal best. This
is where I knew I wanted my son to train, he also loved its so much he spoke of
it all the time. One year into his training I joined, never being good as a
spectator I wanted to do and is a part of this village this peace so full of
electricity and respect for one an other that thrive her. Just as I was about to
test for my yellow belt I had a major seizure. My doctor explained I was
loosing weight and getting so much stronger he had not realized I now needed a
strong anti seizure medicine to compensate for this new and healthy me. But I
remember telling master Rappold I would test for my belt. Having suffered a
small stroke losing partial speed and loss of my right side. I joined myself
once again exercising day and nights. To every one’s surprise except my own I
did test that month. So the martial Arts have saved my life. It’s not only
kicking and punching, it’s a state of mind. I’m now 76 lbs. lighter and only
take sour seizure pills.
My biggest thrill is to meet people like you. You are truly an inspiring. I
also have the pleasure of helping along with my son to teach Master Tracy’s
three-year-olds, that is my greatest joy. My son and I are very close he is 12
now and in today’s world it’s so hard to keep our children safe and teach them
values. With the help of our friends at personal best our very own village I
know he will grow up to be a fine young and respectable man. We’ve read your
book twice and our favorite story is “Have
we forgotten and Principles of
Black Belt in action” . We are indeed fortunate that
master Rappold invites such
quality people to our seminars. It was a privilege and honor to work with you.
Thanks for such a wonderful book. Maybe you’ll remember me I was one of the two
moms on Friday night. My son was one of the younger blue belts. Because of the
pump in my head I didn’t attend Saturday’s grappling session.
God Bless
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Sam & George Tchitts
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Your staff is beautiful, dedicated, caring, fun and feels like home when I am there.
I would love to contribute more. Hopefully in a near future I could.
CONGRATULATIONS FOR A JOB WELL DONE!
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Emilia Plourde
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I think this school is the best that is around. I am not sure if I could not attend class here that I would attend anywhere else.
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Warren Jones, LAPD
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Hello Sir,
I am in Florida and getting
settled in. It is a definite challenge not knowing anyone or anything out here.
Everything is going well so far. The job is excellent and for once I feel like I
am working doing something I love to do. I am handling all of the Professional
and Amateur boxing/Martial arts equipment, promotion, events and athlete
sponsorship.
Lot's of work but very exciting. I started
training again at Mr. Lavallees. My first class was interesting. I dawned a
white belt and realized truly for the first time that it is just a color. I wore
it with pride and was filled with such joy and love for the art itself and not
the "wow your a black belt" appeal. I guess it is never to late to continue on
the journey of "getting it". I will keep on the path of excellence and utilize
everything you have taught me to be the best I can be. One thing that always
comes to mind when thinking of Black Belt training was when all the adult
candidates where gathered on the small mat and you asked one very important
thing of us and it is stuck in my mind forever. You asked that we, no matter
what always protect your name as you would ours. I have lived by that on a daily
basis.
I look forward to using the
platform you generously gave me as a Martial Artist to better my knowledge in
this new adventure I am taking in business, life and martial arts. I will keep
you updated. I hope all is well with you and the entire TKC family .I love and
miss you guys.
Love & Respect,
Jarett Perelmutter
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October 12, 2001
Dear Mr. Azhakh,
Every time I look in our son’s room, I see the display of the nine belts,
including the black belt, which our son Michael earn through training at your
facility. It reminds me of the of the wonderful times I spent several years ago,
going to classes with Michael and watching him grow and learn. Not only did
Michael learn many defensive moves, how to fall correctly, and several different
kicks and Hapkido moves, you and your teachers helped to instill in him the
values and ideas which we can now see reflected in the excellence of his school
work.
Michael always strives for excellence in everything he dose. The last two
years, he’s brought brought home straight “A” report cards. Last month, he had
his Bar-Mitzvah, and has started completing some of the five-year goals which he
set up for himself.
Certainly, my husband and I are tow very proud parents of a wonderful child. I
believe that the training which he received at the Team Karate Center helped him
to become the great child who he is today, and the great adult that he will be
in the future.
Thank you for being an important part in our Family’s lives.
Sincerely,
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Robin Paliwoda
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Dear Mr. Fariborz,
Since my son Alexander began his karate classes I have wanted to share so
many pleasant observations about your studio environment. I also wanted to let
you know that I feel as though I have returned to a familiar and home-like place
after having been on a long and unpleasant journey. The reasons for the bumpy
travel of course do not matter. What matter’s is the journey ahead!
I believe we both know that there are infinite possibilities for Alexander’s
future. It is exciting as well as comforting to know that we have you and your
organization to play a part in forging these possibilities.
Instead of leaving you with nine pages of rhetoric, which is usually my
style, may I just sum up my feelings by saying…
I came and I was warmly received.
I listened and was also heard.
I observed and was given something to see.
I laughed because TKC is alive in spirit.
I asked for help and it was quickly granted.
I feel for TKC because it has heart.
We can grow with TKC because You are committed.
We will grow with TKC because WE are committed!
Thank you for giving 100% in all you do. I recognize this and I am grateful!
Very respectfully yours,
Leanne S. Hamidzadeh
P.S. The graduation was awesome and I also truly appreciate the pre-exam time
given to Alexander by Mr. Saeed, Mr. Shervin, and Mr. Dory. At the 11th
hour Alexander really came alive. I too received a lesson in all of this!
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Dear Mr. Fariborz,
Wow, where has time gone?!? I miss you so much. Reading your e-mail brought back so many great memories. As you've heard, I'm pursuing my dream of becoming a physician at Johns Hopkins. Moving away from home has given me the opportunity to really reflect on everything that I have done in life. It pushes me to analyze my decisions--for better of for worse. Over the past 5 years, I have felt like something has been missing in my heart. Hearing from you, as I live across the country with no family here, made me realize how I have allowed my pursuit of excellence interfere with the most important things in life--the little things!
Do you remember an e-mail I sent you when I started my undergraduate years at UCLA? I wrote to you about my first major medical experience. The most interesting thing was that I was the patient watching a team of doctor's decide how to treat me. I felt a level of vulnerability, but also confidence that I was in good hands. That experience further ignited my passion to become a physician and I have not lost sight of that goal ever since. However, let me explain why I now feel that there has been a dark cloud hanging over my path.
I worked so hard for four years at UCLA and did not allow anything to discourage me from continuing my education. Unfortunately though, I now feel that I never "stopped to smell the roses." One of the first major sacrifices that I made was halting my martial arts training at the studio. I believed, at that time, that there was not enough time to study and actively be involved in the many community service activities that I was a part of. Unknowingly, I cut out a piece of my heart with that decision.
The martial arts, undoubtedly, gave me the discipline and strength to get where I am today. Ironically, it was the first to go! I still receive the TKC newsletters and usually delete them, thinking that there can't be much important information in them and that they will only serve as a constant reminder of what I gave up. However, I read the last one you sent and looked at the 2001 Black Belt Graduates. My goodness!! Looking at all those people making such a huge leap is amazing! I read a few of the bios and couldn't help but begin to cry. I realized the true physical and, most importantly, emotional value of the promotion to the Black Belt rank. I noticed the younger students the most, as they make their way to 1st and 2nd degree Black Belts. It reminded me of my tests and the grueling mix of emotions I felt as I rose in the ranks. Earning my 3rd degree was just icing on the cake. I feel that my most influential exam was my 1st degree exam. We spent close to 14 hours in the studio that day! After that exam, I felt the highest level of satisfaction. It helped me realize how great it is to work for so many years at a seemingly distant goal and finally achieve it.
As weird as it may sound, I miss that exam day and can only look back on it as a memory. I now wish that I could be there to talk to each and every one of this year's graduates and hear their stories. If I could tell them all one thing, it would be NEVER forget the experiences, friendships, and emotions that their training at the studio has afforded them.
I am now beginning a new chapter in my life as a medical student. There are no words to describe how amazing it is to watch the world's best doctors in action everyday. Knowing that I will soon join their ranks is the new driving force in my life. There is one major difference though; I have now learned to appreciate every new day, new experience, and new relationship. I truly believe in the saying, "Today is the first day of the rest of your life...and it could be your last." Unfortunately, here in Baltimore, I see many young lives end everyday as a result of violent crime. Our ER has multiple patients come in with gunshot wounds and stab wounds every night. I can't allow myself to just accept these acts of violence and move on. I have become actively involved in a community revitalization project here to help get kids off the streets. I am working to impart the knowledge and discipline that you gave me to these children. I plan to hold free martial arts classes for the neighborhood children in hopes of providing them with similar opportunity that I had when I was younger and becoming their mentor for life.
I am thankful for our relationship, Mr. Fariborz. I feel that we have an eternal connection. Even as time passes and we don't hear from each other, we are always able to pick up right where we left off. Please don't let this time be like the others. I want to maintain contact with you. I look forward to hearing from you soon. I will be back in Los Angeles for Thanksgiving. I hope to see you then. Take care.
Love,
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Amir A. Ghaferi
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I have wanted to share some thoughts with you many times, but we are all so
busy, but this is better shared in writing to clarify my thoughts.
My son, Steven wanted to "take" Karate and we happened to find your studio. At
the time, I was not sure what outcome I expected, but hoped that it would be an
activity that he would enjoy. I watched his concentration and self discipline
improve dramatically. While he was taking class, I had the opportunity to
experience a number of then instructors. I was always impressed with their
patience, sincerity, interest and motivation with the kids. It was strange that
I learned a lot watching from the sidelines. You have taught your instructors
how to bring out the best in the students and themselves. Many times I would
take a book or my briefcase and open it up to get "something accomplished". It
was listening to the subtle messages from the instructors that I learned to
watch Steven and just enjoy what he was doing. I actually enjoyed watching the
interaction between the instructors and the students. They were able to teach
the kids many things in the time they worked one on one with them. In fact, I
would guess the time the instructors spend with the kids, can exceed the time
many parents spend with their children; gently guiding them in understanding
themselves. It was truly what is often called quality time. The instructors
certainly earn the respect of the children the way most parents would like to,
by example.
Along with Steven, John of course was involved with the program. He certainly
enjoys both the classes and teaching. There have been a number of ramifications,
as I am sure you have experienced. From this perspective I have seen
unbelievable changes in John. At one time, his integrity was something that he
had difficulty with. It is a self perpetuating dilemma, if your promises are
insincere, one cannot expect to succeed. There wasn't any real commitment to
make a difference. In working with you, he really began to look at himself and
decide to be different. It is so easy to do what you have always done, and
harder to take that step to the next level. He really looks up to you as a role
model, and is inspired to reach beyond what he thinks is possible. I know there
are times when he is not living the black belt commitment, and he finds it more
difficult to "get" to Karate. He always comes back, and he feels better about
himself and virtually everything else when he is participating in Karate. I know
it is primarily your expectations that people can be what they decide, with no
excuses. That truth continues to guide him to grow and model himself after you
and the other instructors in the studio. I personally thank you for being
someone that looked at the potential in John, and gently show him the future is
his to decide.
Now for the real purpose...
In watching your instructors and yourself, I have a tremendous amount of
respect for you. It is with sincerity that I thank you for being a part of my
family, and letting us share your family. The studio is such a warm environment,
from the moment you walk in and Faramarz greets me with such enthusiasm, as
though I have made his day happier, to when each instructor acknowledges my
presence. I think you have created a true family, not just a place to learn
Karate forms, but to experience and want to belong and participate. It is with
great pleasure that I have known you, your family, and the family of instructors
at the studio. Thanks for giving me the opportunity to experience it with my
family.
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Gayla Pairman
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Dear Mr. Azhakh
Far too often people only write to complain about some service, product or employee that has not met their needs. It is with much pleasure that I write this brief letter to commend you and your staff for the excellent training, teamwork and knowledge that you impart on our children.
All of your instructors are absolutely great with the kids but I would like to give special recognition to Mr. Shervin who seems to have a special ability to relate to all of his kids especially our Nickolas. He is firm, yet understanding. He knows just how far to push his students and when to back off. His ability to communicate on all levels and natural understanding of the child psychology makes him a natural for the position. I hope that he will be with you for a long time for he is a asset to your organization and we believe the reason Nickolas has stuck with your program.
Sincerely,
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Michael C. Risher
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It was a normal Wednesday morning when I arrived at the studio. It has been a long week and it seemed that God had filled my plate with challenges. It was a rough week. I came into the office and checked my e-mail as I usually do. The following is the exact e-mail I received that morning. It seemed that the God, again, wanted me to see the blessing in what I do.
Fariborz Azhakh
11/19/97
Hello there Mr. Fariborz!
This is Amir. It's been a long time since I have spoken to you. I just wanted to take a moment to visit your web page. WOW! It has changed immensely. It's great to see the progress that you have made in the past year and a half that I have not seen you. A NEW BOOK! That is quite an accomplishment. I never knew that you had it in the working. Well...I am now a student at UCLA and holding up pretty well.
Just the other evening I was re-examining my past. I have my third degree black belt certificate on the wall in my room.. I could not believe how long it had been since I had actually stopped to take a look at it. I look so young in the picture. When I look at myself now, I am shocked at the progress I have made in my short 17 years. When I think back on my days in karate, they seem so distant. I can hardly remember the day I began my martial arts training. However, I vividly remember the karate tournament that introduced me to your studio. Fate--it's a powerful force. When I remember the feeling that I had when I first began at your studio, I feel warm inside. Having me watch Maziar and Nima test for there black belts was your way of showing me my goal. Boy did it work!! After watching the two of them test side by side, I knew that that was what I wanted to achieve in the near future. About a year later, I was testing for my black belt along side Bobby (I don't know if you remember him). Maziar and Nima were right there on the panel watching me. What a feeling!! The same intensity that I felt when I started karate at your studio is beginning to fire up within me at college. I am about two weeks away from finishing my first quarter at UCLA. I recently broke my finger and had to go to the Emergency Room here at UCLA. I got to see the Medical students take a look at my finger at together, make a decision on how to treat me. I think that is what sparked the fire within me. Just as Maziar and Nima's black belt test ignited my passion for karate, these medical students also aroused a certain passion within me to practice medicine. I now have the drive to complete college quickly and be on my way to Medical School.
Fate--it struck again.
Thank you Mr. Fariborz.
Yours truly,
Amir Ghaferi
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Amir Ghaferi
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Dear Mr. Fariborz,
I recently visited your website and had the pleasure of reading through
your inspirational stories and quotes. Just reading through them gives a person
such a wonderful feeling of self assurance and peace. I just wanted to send you
some of my favorite quotes. I also wanted to take this time to thank for all
your teachings. Not only kicks, punches or forms, but those that I will use on
a daily basis throughout my life. You taught me that through setting short term
and long term goals one has direction. The first long term goal I set that day
was earning my Black Belt. I can never describe how it feels to reach your
first long term goal. However, I can tell you that the experience has allowed me
to set and reach several goals in life. There are still numerous long term
goals that I still need to reach, through my short term goals I have the
confidence that I will reach them. Thank you for being an inspirational
mentor.
A
teacher affects eternity;
he can never tell where his influence stops.
Henry Brooks Adams
There comes that mysterious meeting in life
when someone acknowledges who we are and what we can be,
igniting the circuits of our highest potential.
Rusty Berkus
I do want to return and continue my journey towards Black Belt
Excellence. But you also taught me that if your not going to give it 100%
there's no point. My goal is to be able to give it 100%. I plan to reach that
goal before the new year. I have all the confidence in myself that I will.
Sincerely Yours.
Sahar Javaherian
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Sahar Javaherian
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